In spite of its post-war ruin, Kabul is a cosmopolitan city and Munir tried hard to maintain decorum, even a sense of style. Sex had really not been on my mind when I embarked for Afghanistan, but I was attracted to Munir. His response to my interest struck me as very sophisticated. I told them simply that I was doing interviews. Abadullah, the protective assistant manager, always insisted on knowing my whereabouts and expressed fears I would run across Al-Qaeda insurgents.
Later-on, especially during any prolonged periods of sexual inactivity, basic dilation must be done at least once or twice a week to insure maintenance of vaginal width and depth. Even after many years, if the woman notices any tightening or constrictions from one week to the next, the frequency of dilation must be increased until that tightening episode has passed. For more detailed information about dilation techniques and immediate postop care, carefully study the article Zen and the Art of Postop Maintenance. We cannot over-emphasize how essential it is to rigorously perform dilations according to the schedule provided by your surgeon. Many of the cases where surgical outcomes seem to be poor are actually the result of women not rigorously dilating, especially during the critical months immediately following SRS.